When a partisan discovers that opposition leaders engage in blatant, bald-faced lying, do you find it charming … or sad?
Donald Trump and his “administration are gaslighting us,” writes Ariel Leve. “It’s a term we are hearing a lot of right now.”
Of course we are. “The term ‘gaslighting’ refers to when someone manipulates you into questioning and second-guessing your reality,” explains The Guardian’s helpful reality guard.
By way of explanation, she discusses some vague abuse* her family directed towards her as a child, and then asserts that her mother’s denial of the issues, the “erasure of the abuse,” was, to her, “worse than the abuse.”
I can see that. But what if “your reality” — what you defend — is irreal itself?
Sure, she thinks Trump and the Republicans are “gaslighting” her. Well, welcome to the club, Ms. Leve. I thought Bush and the Republicans were gaslighting me — as were, in the previous century, the Clintons and all those Friends of Bill, and, more recently, Obama and Pelosi and the incredibly fawning media.
The problem sure looks like the proverbial protesting about the mote in the other guy’s eye while not seeing the two-by-four in one’s own. But it is worse when the lumber juts from most eyes on both sides of the partisan aisle — enough to build a McMansion with all the spare wood.
Leve advises the reader to do like she did — trust in her “version of reality. Not allowing it to be altered on demand. Resistance.”
Good advice, but only if you aren’t deluded.
And could politics be too often an avenue for wounded people to lash back at (or make up for) childhood grievances? That would explain a lot.
This is Common Sense. I’m Paul Jacob.
* Ms. Leve helpfully expands upon the chaos of her childhood elsewhere. Sounds horrifying enough to me. She is convincing.
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As the citizen and one of the persons, as part of the electorate, who is to be in control of my government and its actions through my representatives, I find lying and misleading, by statement or omission by any elected official or any agent totally and absolutely unacceptable.
On proof, such should be grounds for immediate replacement, regardless of remaining term..
Representative who are nothing but agents, are allowed, and are expected to have, differing opinions, preferences and policies, but are never allowed to ever deceive or secret from their principal any material fact or information.